Mothers Day – Circle of Life – Fortunate or Unfortunate

Posted on: May 10, 2010
87 comments so far (is that a lot?)

Mothers Day Pakistan (Tirmizi Family in Umrah)Mothers day… today was not like any other day … though I tried to pass it as usual , but now when I look back to last 18-24 hrs it was not the same ..

A wise person once said .. Life Goes on ….  How it changes over the years we never realise …. Like I now have two kids of my own … Love them dearly .. Now I realise that almost all the things that seemed weired or uncool are basically part of our natural self.

When you are a kid your Mother is your life .. those 2-7-8 years your parents specially mother is all you feel like you need and nothing else matters. For the mother there’s nothing more precious thing in the world then her kids.

But then time moves on … kids find more friends , start going to schools, academies. Start interactions with outside world and that seems better … start losing interest in there parents.

Then comes a stage when they are young enough to move on and take a leap into another phase of life .. Marriage. Once that kid who couldn’t even stand straight or was lying in your lap helplessly drinking milk from a feeder spilling it all over the place now is big enough to move on to a new life. Once married now he/she have there own world to create to live in … But for parents they don’t have any new life to start … nothing new to look @ … though grarnd kids etc give them a sense of responsibility again .. but its just not the same ..

I Love you my Mother and Father …. you guys have made my life a living paradise …… I waited all day and said it to you too happy mothers day my mom … but that didn’t convey the thanks , the love the pain that I feel in my heart … So I thank Allah to have you with me to look @ each day to love each day .. I just wish I Allah should give me this habit of Thanking them each day and loving them expressing that love each day.

In the end .. being a parent myself and I know how much I love to hear my daughter say ” I love you baba jani” melts my heart .. for parents you’ll always be a small kid who will melt there hearte … Take the opportunity and tell your parents ” I LOVE YOU MOTHER / FATHER”

- Tirmizi

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87 Responses to “Mothers Day – Circle of Life – Fortunate or Unfortunate”


  1. Its sad living away from mothers. When I stayed behind in Pakistan for vacantion, …I missed her terribly. Coudnt wait to get back to UK.

    May Allah protect all mothers because without them we are lost




  2. Sara Tariq

    i love my mummy…




  3. This song makes me nostalgic. I get into my childhood.




  4. Maa, the most beautiful word in the world




  5. and yes I forgot to say … MUM I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




  6. Asif Mirza

    Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
    Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
    Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
    Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
    Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
    Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa
    Bheed Mein Yun Na Chodo Mujhe
    Ghar Laut Ke Bhi Aa Naa Paoon Maa
    Bhej Na Itna Door Mujkko Tu
    Yaad Bhi Tujhko Aa Naa Paoon Maa
    Kya Itna Bura Hoon Main Maa
    Kya Itna Bura Meri Maa
    Jab Bhi Kabhi Papa Mujhe
    Jo Zor Se Jhoola Jhulate Hain Maa
    Meri Nazar Dhoondhe Tujhe
    Sochu Yahi Tu Aa Ke Thaamegi Maa




  7. Faizan Alvi

    yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar,, i cant live without my mom,,, maa i wana come to you,,,, i love u




  8. My mother died last month,i love her and cant live without her please pray for my mom may GOD help her!!! Ama i love you yaar i want to hug you and tell you how nuch i love you amma…i miss u




  9. @Bena // Sorry for your loss dear ….




  10. today is mothers day n i miss my mom …….. she is not in this world i love u mom




  11. tehmina tanvir

    luv u mom alot… this is a very little word to say. :(




  12. ehtesham

    @asif mirza, very beautiful song




  13. ehtesham

    “I Love you my Mother and Father …. you guys have made my life a living paradise …… I waited all day and said it to you too happy mothers day my mom … but that didn’t convey the thanks , the love the pain that I feel in my heart … So I thank Allah to have you with me to look @ each day to love each day .. I just wish I Allah should give me this habit of Thanking them each day and loving them expressing that love each day.”…….. VERY TRUE




  14. waseem nawaz

    hmmmmmmm shukr h k itna to h k atleast 1 day to he celebrate krney k lie… warna to parents ki taraf dekhne ka tym kis k pas h :(




  15. @WASEEM, ESI BAAT NAI HE SIR.WHO WILL BE HERE WHO DONT LOVE THEIR PARENTS. I LOVE MY PARENTS ALOT.




  16. i agree with Mr. Qyoom




  17. waseem nawaz

    yar i still say we dont have love with our parents. wat does this only day does to us….. nothing dear.




  18. i love my parents alot. i can never say or think over this thing this way.




  19. waseem nawaz

    i dont say it to particulary sum1 but it is general observation. a few of us just heartily love n care for their parents otherwise majority feels their parents burden over them.




  20. waseem nawaz

    listen we dont think where from dis day has grown up. this is not the trend of our culture nor religion… if we always keep on fulfillng our days 2wards our parents we dont need to celebrate the only single day throughout the year.




  21. waseem nawaz

    the parents r awaitng 4 our hug or 2 words of our love the whole year………..




  22. i do agree with waseem to an extent but we should celebrate it too.




  23. waseem nawaz

    my point is noyt this that we dont celebrate this day .my point is to celebrate this the whole year …….every day…………..cant we????????




  24. tehmina tanvir

    calm down dear. we r muslims n we being muslims try to fulfil our duties. may ALLAH give us strenght to fulfil our duties or hamarey nek aamaal ko qubool bhi farmaey aameen




  25. tehmina tanvir

    by the way waseem is rite with the view that it is not our tradition.. actually ye west ki paidawar he jahan waldain jab boorhey ho jatey hen to unki oladen unhen old houses men bhej deti hen or saal k saal ya wo bhi ni…… un se milne k lie jati hen…… ya wo bhi nai sirf 1 card post kerdeti hen k unhen apne waldain ki yaad ai he…. n old houses men waldain un ki taraf se kisi paigham ki aas men baithey rehtey hen n baqi zindagi guza detey hen.




  26. tehmina tanvir

    to zahir si baat he us waqt un parents ko unka ye hug ya “i luv u” ya “i miss u” k words boht qeemti lagtey hen…… us waqt wo un par na ghussa kar saktey hen na jhagar saktey hen k itney taweel intezaar k bad aj apne baccey ki shakal dekhna naseeb hui or kia pata un k is reaction se un ki olad palat k aey b ya nai……. :(




  27. yasmin shuja'at

    hmmmmmm n v r following that trend.




  28. yasmin shuja'at

    actuly v r not feelng that pain our arents r feeling 4 us. v have been habitual of spending life in present with our intrst. our parents have becum past n v want 2 live wth our present n futre.. by the time passes, we get the age n tym our parents had then we understand …….then our kids do that with us, we had done b4 wth our parents.




  29. urooj bushra

    MAKAFAT E AMAL :)




  30. jamal patel

    tit for tat :(




  31. lubna ishtiaq

    ab pachtaey kia howat jab churian chug gain khet….. kia khyal h :)




  32. maleeha shah

    means we dont celebrate these dayz???????????????




  33. owais raza

    @ maleeha shah, means wewe will not change ourselves for our parents….. for those parents who changed themselves throught for us kids ?????? :( :)




  34. PARVEEN NAZ

    YAR WE NEED VERY HARD STRUGGLE. HAMEN ZARORAT I KIA H KISI K TREND KO FOLLOW KRNE KI. YE TO WO LOG KRTE H JIN KI BASES YA TO HOTI NAI H YA WEAK HOTI H. HAMAREY SATH TO ALLAH KA SHUKAR H K ESA KOI MAMLA NI H.




  35. haseeb shan

    Hmmmmmmm rite parveen. hamara mazhab to hamen ik lamha bhi apne waldain se baparwah nahi honey deta ha. hamarey waldain hamarey liey tarsein hi q???????




  36. SAMI KHAN

    bhai ye jo maghrib ki koshish ha na hamari jaron ko weak karne ki wo is kamyaab hogay ha. ab hum us ki rah par chal pary han . hamary pas hakikat ma apna parents k lie time nahi ha. is hakikat se nazren chura kr hum sirf apne ap ko hi dhoka detey han.




  37. Shahzad Saleem Janjua

    True I am also realizing this fact, money, fame, objectives, targets, accomplishments etc etc is not and cannot be on top of family. Allah Subhan Waa Taalah has not made any human being live in isolation. Each one relates to someone else in any relationship.

    I miss my mom and family in Pakistan :(




  38. Zaki Ghaznavi

    that is true but aslonger we care about each ather as bussy we r as fare is we cane be we r all ways with each ather in or hearts




  39. Aliya Janjua

    Our lives are so busy and some times we live so far from our families.we miss the relationship with our families and often we do not even share important life events with them.we need to move back towords our families.if not in actual distance then at least we must move closer in our hearts.




  40. Very True Aliya // We need to keep our values alive with changing times … the family structure needs to be kept intact , the interactions the respect everything …. thats what differentiates us , makes us stronger …




  41. Usman Latif Khawaja

    mother and mother nature is life in a cycle itself




  42. A cycle in a way .. that your parents love you soooooooooooooo damn much .. kids are there life .. they spend all there life in grooming them and taking care of them etc etc ….

    And then a time comes when there kids are married and have there own kids .. they are now engaged in there own world …. and then there kids when they’lll grow up it would happen the same way …

    Not easy to be a parent at that pont I guess ….




  43. Arslan Gamer

    very nice pic




  44. Muhammed Ahmed

    It’s hard to remember, Summer or Winter, when she hasn’t been there for me, a friend and companion, I can always depend on, my Mother, that’s who I need.
    I’ve taken for granted, the seeds that she’s planted, she’s always behind every scheme, a teacher, a seeker, a both arms outreacher, my Mother, that’s who I need.
    Wish I could slow down, a hundred… See More times, and keep things the way they are, if she said so,I would give her the world, if I could, I would.
    My love and my laughter, from here ever after, is all that she says that she needs,a friend and companion,I can always depend on, my Mother, that’s who I need, my Mother, that’s who I need, that’s who I need, that’s who I need, that’s who I need.




  45. @Ahmed // beautiful words !!!!




  46. Faiza Khan

    awwwwwwwwww if your parents read thsi they will for surly love it bhai !!
    a very emotional exzpression but best for parents :)
    they mean a world to us !!!may ALLAH bless your parents and you !!




  47. @Faizaa // if only .. but they are not into computers or internet … I think since I knew they won’t be reading it …. kinda made it easier to be more vocal about this … anyways words can’t express our love for our parents … we are forever indebted to them … and can’t ever payback for all the sleepless nights they had for us …. how they … See Moreprotected us from anything ..

    Allah in his ultimate wisdom created our parents as our ultimate well wisher and guardian in the world …

    May Allah Blesses our parents and gives us strength and wisdom to bring them as many happinesses as we can in this world …




  48. lubna ishtiaq

    I LOVE MY PARENTS A LOT… CANT LIVE WITHOUT THEM. MAY GOD KEEP ME ALWAYS UNDER THEIR SHADES.




  49. hira mairaj

    yar maan ka to ko nemulbadal hi nahin hai.




  50. M. AZHAR

    maan ik jazba jaisey 1 glass men pure water bhara rakha hai jis main kisi kism ki koi milawat nai hai..




  51. maria shiekh

    ye merelie wo hasti he jis par aankh band kr k yakeen krti hun. wo jo keh ri he sach keh ri he meri behtri k lie keh ri he n mere hi lie kr ri he….. dunia me or koi nai jo mere lie hamesha esa hi selfless rahe….hamesha ik hi jazba rakhe….. mere lakh baat na maanne par ghalati rakhne par kabhi mere lie dil me burai nai rakhti …… phir bhi meri hi fikr krti he…… mere hi gird ghomti he…… he koi us ka nemul badal jis k lie me itni ehem hun…. kabhi koi ho hi nai sakta………. i feel the thing for her that i cant describe in words……..




  52. NABEEL RAZA

    @ MARIA WE RESPECT UR FEELING. WE ALL FEEL THIS THING FOR OUR RESPECTIVE MOTHERS. WE ALL SALUTE OUR MOTHERS FOR BEING HERE FOR US ONLY. :)




  53. NABEEL RAZA

    BUT WAT THE FACT IS THAT WATEVER WE FEEL OR DO FOR OR MOTHERS N FATHERS IS NEVER EQUIVALENT TO WAT OUR PARENTS THINK FOR US. IT NEVER IS POSSIBLE. :(




  54. owais raza

    @ Nabeel. exactly right brother. 1 hadees e mubarka hai is se related: 1 sahabi(r.a)ne Aap (s.a.w)se poocha k men apni boorhi maan ki khidmat krta hun to kia men ne us ka haq ada kar dia… Aap (s.a.w) ne farmaya k nai tum kabi us ka haq ada nai kr sakte q k us ne tmhari bachpan me khidmat ki k tum barey ho jao.. (is dunia me rehne k qabil banaya).. or tum us ki khidmat kr rae ho takey wo sukoon se is dunia se jasakey…
    moral:us ki tmhare lie khidmat is dunia men laney k lie thi jab k tmhairi us k lie khidmat is dunia se jane k lie he..




  55. hira mairaj

    hmmmmmmmm.




  56. hira mairaj

    wesey hum neutral ho kar diyanatdari k sath apna ehtesaab karen to hamen nazar ata he k aj hum sirf apne mafad k lie un ki fikr kr rahe hen. hamen un ki zarorat he jo hamen un k lie mohabat ki shakal men nazar ari he. ap khud dekhen k ye kesi mohabat h k ye mohabat itni taqatwar nai h k hamari bad zabani par ghalib ajaey ya hamari bad tamizi kam ho jae. hum to ye sub apna haq samaj rae h. waldein boorhey huey ab or un ka koi kam nai raha bulkey wo to hamarey kam men rukawat ban gae. unhen 1 kamrey me kr dia. 3 waqt ka khana de dia ya bhijwa dia… nurse rakh di un ki khidmat k lie.. ye he hamari aj ki mohabat waldain se :(




  57. hira mairaj

    n thennn happy mother or father day




  58. hira mairaj

    really ab un ka itna to hak banta hi he k unhen atleast ik din to yad kr hi lia jae




  59. beenish mirza

    sahi dear. aaj to logon ka ye haal he k aik family men chaar baitey hen walden ne barey shoq se baiton ki shadi ki . kuch ursey badd jab walid retire hue to walden bachon ko bhari lagne lagey..ab wo waldain jinhon ne charon bachon ko equal importance detey hue pala wo waldain aj un charon bachon sey nahi sambal rae hen. or wo bachey apas men decide krtey hen k chukey ek mahiney men four weeks hotey hen to ek ek week waldain ko apne ghar rakh letey hen..is tarah bojh bhi nai banega……………. wat a love for dear parents……………… phir ek din un parents ki salgirah mana di jatihe k bhai un ka bhi haq he :) :(




  60. jaweria khan

    A mother is the truest friend we have,
    when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us;
    when adversity takes the place of prosperity;
    when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us;
    when trouble thickens around us;
    still will she cling to us,
    and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness,
    and cause peace to return to our hearts.




  61. shamsa jeewa

    I love you
    And care for you
    Very much
    My
    Adorable
    Nice
    Always
    Loving
    Mom!




  62. lareb naqvi

    I take this opportunity
    to thank you for
    your immeasurable
    contribution to my life.
    Thank you Mom!




  63. lareb naqvi

    Mummy, I love you For all that you do. I’ll kiss you and hug you ‘Cause you love me, too. You feed me and need me To teach you to play, So smile ’cause I love you On this Mother’s Day. Mummy, I love you




  64. Happy Mother’s Day to my beautiful wife and all the mother’s out there. Hope you all have a great day.




  65. obaid wahab

    Mother stands for

    M – For the MILLION things she gave me,
    O – For she’s growing OLD,
    T – For the TEARS she shed to save me,
    H – For her HEART of purest gold,
    E – For her EYES, with love-light shining,
    R – For she is always RIGHT and always be.




  66. ghafoor ali

    ohh tho my mom not live i can still say it to her raveyard




  67. urooj tahir

    So to hear your mom has passed, but I’m sure she is looking down on you and your family with love, enjoy this day.




  68. ghafoor ali

    Thanks u and i well know she with me avery time




  69. ghafoor ali

    thanks i hope i can see her but i just cant
    =(




  70. hakim iqbal

    YASEEN—–it is name of a male child of 4 years old—He was seeing desperately how all children of his age were giving happily gifts to their mothers & in return mothers were expressing full love to their children—–
    “Will you not give gift to your mother?” suddenly one child asked Yaseen——Yaseen started chewing his nails & he bowed his … See Morehead towards floor—–
    His mother had expired at the moment of his birth—-So Yaseen was being brought up by his relatives

    Then another child interfered & said to second child”I know his mother has gone to God to bring toys for him—–Am i not right ?” the child said anxiously by moving Yaseen shoulder. —-Yaseen face went down further
    “Oh! so is the matter !” the first child said ” you please E-mail her”——& since then Yaseen is asking me his mother E mail address
    This is mother day—i appeal all mothers please do not forget those orphons who are with out parents —pray for them while kissing your children




  71. LIAQUAT haider

    May God richly bless all mothers day and every day. Happy Mother’s day!




  72. kashan khan

    MaY aLLaH gIvE yOuR mOtHeR a LoNg LiFe WiTh A lOt Of
    HaPpiNeSs AnD gLaFuLnEs MoMeNtS…….!!!
    TaKe CaRe Of YOuR mOtHeR…..!!!
    LoVe YoU mOm…!!!




  73. Mother Your arms always get open when I need a hug. Your heart knows to understand when I need a friend. Your sensitive eyes harden when I need a lesson. Your strength and your love Drove me through life and gave me wings that I needed to fly.




  74. faria tanoli

    Happy Mothers day to my ANGEL and all other ANGELS around the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!




  75. dur-e-kamal

    Mut ki agosh main jb thak k so jati hai MAA,,
    Tb kahn ja kr thora sakon pati he MAA;,
    Roh k rishto ki ye ghrai to dekho,
    Chot lgti he humn or chlati he MAA,,
    Mangti nahi kch b Allah sy apny liya,
    Apne bachon k liy Damn ko phelty he MAA,,
    Piyar kahty he kisy or Mamta kya chez he,
    Koi un bacho sy pochy jn ki guzr jati he MAA,,
    C…hahy hm khushio me MAA ko bhol jy,
    Dosto jb Musibat sar pe ati he to YAD ati he MAA




  76. saleem bari

    RESPECT YOUR MOTHER EVERY TIME




  77. jaweed siddiqi

    o Allah please give good health,long life,true eman,prosperity n all happiness to my mother n to all mothers.love u maa.




  78. mom is like a teacher of his child so respect and care of you moms and happy mothers day to all of the mom in the whole world




  79. HAMZA USMANI

    my Mom who I miss every day, to my step mom who is also passed, To Mary Allen who was as much my Mom as my own mother who is also gone, and to my step kids Mom who they love, adore and miss so very much. All my Moms are gone now- dont forget to cherish the time with your Moms still here. God Bless




  80. lubna khan

    My Mother, my friend so dear
    Throughout my life you’re always near
    A tender smile to guide my way
    You’re the sunshine to light my day




  81. Faraz Ahmed

    Of all the gifts that life has to offer, there is none better than a loving mother




  82. saeeda khatoon

    I love my mother as trees love water and sunshine. She helps me grow, prosper, and reach great heights




  83. faiza anees

    There’s no greater love than a mother’s love.




  84. momin hakim

    “No painter’s brush nor poet’s pen, in justice to her fame, has never reached quite high enough, to write a mother’s name.”




  85. palwasha

    A mother’s heart is a beautiful expression of God’s everlasting love




  86. @ hakim iqbal// a lovely message :)




  87. rahima ayub tanoli

    RABBIRHAMHUMA KAMA RABBAYAANI SAGHEERA
    AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN
    SUMMA AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN



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